Pick Your Own Bubble
I’ve heard people say, “You live in a bubble. Stay grounded in the real world!” But I truly believe living in a bubble is the key to being happy—and maybe even finding success. I don’t owe anyone anything, and I can shape life however I want, as long as I’m a good citizen who respects the law (not to mention you can pick your citizenship and residency these days, if that suits you). Beyond that, why not build life on my own terms?
I’m 37, but honestly, I still feel like that romantic kid daydreaming about the future. I can be distracted, visionary, and not always great at day-to-day social norms. Over time, though, I have learned how to be a good husband, a caring son, a father, and a leader at work. The biggest shift that came with age is acceptance—I understand myself better and no longer feel embarrassed when I’m not perfect at something. I am who I am, and I love being me. That’s the wisdom that age brought me.
I’ve dealt with forced immigration, legal troubles, the loss of loved ones, and losing significant money more than once, starting from scratch each time. Sure, it was tough and sad at points. But I never remember it as something impossible. My family and I faced it all side by side, and even in the worst moments, we found ways to enjoy life.
